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The nagging wife
Nothing ever right
I’m the nagging wife who can never do things right and always to blame. Yep, I said because I hear it all the time. I have always been the blame of everything, at least since being with H.
When H was drinking ALL the time. I was told all the time that I was the reason he drank. Which, he is an alcoholic. He has actually been sober a year almost. We would argue about his drinking and that’s when he said I was the reason he drank because all I do is bitch and nag and stress him out. Yet, he was going to work in a factory every damn day half drunk.
These days, if I tell him something needs to be done, he will say ok I will do it on my day off”. Which would be fine and dandy if he did it. If I didn’t say anything that day and waited a week, then it’s a why didn’t you remain me type deal. If I say something the day before or the day of it’s an attitude and a shitty response back.
If I nag him, he gets mad and in a shitty mood to everyone. If I don’t then it doesn’t get done, then I’m annoyed. When asked why I’m annoyed and I say why, then que the shitty mood from him. It is a lose-lose situation for me. It’s either my fault or I’m a nagging bitch. If I knew how to do some of the things myself, I would.
I’m gonna be real honest, I don’t know how to cut grass, let alone start a lawn mower…
